Articles #שינוי הרגלים

Three questions I ask every couple that comes to me: What brings you to me? Do you want to change what you described? Are you ready to make an effort? At the base of these questions is an assumption that a large part of what we do in life, and a significant part of our behaviors, stem from habits embedded deep within us. To change habits requires motivation, belief in the possibility of change, small successes along the way and continuous effort.

One of the basic assumptions of the NLP says that: "The map is not the area" This basic assumption claims that the area - the objective world is undocumentable. Each person perceives the world in a unique way, therefore each person has a unique map regarding reality, and none of the representations is truly reality. In other words, it can be said that in fact: there is no reality!!! There is nothing objective!!! Everything is in the eye of the beholder.