Relationships #מערכת יחסים

The great freedom has arrived - what do you do with so much free time? Even in married life there are decades of together thinking about what and how to do. The work and hard work of the whole family connects and consolidates everyone and also the relationship.

In the life of a couple, every couple goes through crises, some unbearable and some lighter. In some cases we must learn from the reaction of Aaron the priest to the death of his two sons: Lidom. Sometimes, words have less power than silence. The couple must learn when to talk and when to be silent.

Our mother Rebecca is a universal question that every person asks himself during his life, "Why is it selfish?" Why did I come into the world? Even in a relationship, it is natural and healthy to ask oneself "why is it us"? And most importantly, do as Rebecca did and demand, seek, answers.

As the corona plague rages, the reality of life has brought most of us to spend multiple hours with the kids and the couple. How to practice? How do you function? It is important right now in the family quarantine in the limited compound that everyone from the household, and especially the parents, will have the personal space.

We all go through different stages in our lives. Sometimes we are in the "eternal" state where everything seems negative, bad, and a failure. And sometimes we are in the "eternal God" where everything seems rosy, successful, happy, promising and encouraging. There are ups and downs, successes and failures, crises and solutions in the life of the couple as well.

"For all time and time ... time to embrace, and time to distance from embracing." In the days of the corona the words "time to embrace far away" have a very positive meaning. Keeping your distance is because of excessive love and a desire to keep alive. And in a relationship, there are times when the distance is right.

What is the meaning of the act of sacrificing a victim? It seems that the concept of sacrificing comes from, among other things, the language of 'sacrifice.' In the life of a couple, both spouses are required to sacrifice themselves (a lot), but it is important for them to know that this sacrifice brings them closer together.

It is important to recognize that there are sometimes loves that are 'sick'; But it is more important to know that there is no love that has no cure. Do not despair, and must try to properly improve the marital relationship. Everyone deserves a happy married life, full of emotion of sharing and inclusion. This is possible!

A number of basic lines for establishing a strong relationship: Honesty - a relationship built on full trust; Memberships from the word 'connection.' The couple are friends in heart and soul, and live each other out of a desire to be together; Paragon - Take off the masks of toughness and ego and compliment.

In Parashat Va'atchanan we read, "I stand between Yahweh and you." The Rebbe of Kotzk says that the 'selfish' is the one who stands between God and you.

The corona crisis caused, among other things, that the marital and family reality became a situation in which they stayed together at home for days and even weeks. Suddenly every day - and all day - are together, which can lead to stress and stress. How do you work? How are they conducted?

Stubbornness is one of the worst traits in a relationship, and in its power to lead to lack of communication and lack of sharing; Why have a dialogue if the other side is always right? These things can challenge any relationship. While there is room for the trait of stubbornness, in a relationship it is recommended that we do not use it.