communication #שיח

The power of speech is the power in which the first man is endowed and distinguished. As spouses and parents we must use the power of speech to create a true partnership, and an atmosphere of understanding, acceptance and giving between the couple, family members, and from there all members of society.

There is one thing that every couple must do to create a couple life full of appreciation, sincerity and love - share, share, and once again share. Open dialogue and mutual sharing bring the spouse into a living and influential way into the world of the other spouse.

Conversation and humility - both are the mainstay and weaken the connection between people in general, and between spouses in particular. The possibility of the true connection between a person and his friend cannot but exclude these two simple elements, on the one hand, and on the other, so deep and complex.

Every couple goes through crises, challenges or difficulties in their married life. The greatness of a couple's success is to get them together. In the vast majority of cases, in the forces of both spouses while conducting a deep and honest conversation, and seeking the truth out of love, coping and even transcending the crisis.

Our mother Rebecca is a universal question that every person asks himself during his life, "Why is it selfish?" Why did I come into the world? Even in a relationship, it is natural and healthy to ask oneself "why is it us"? And most importantly, do as Rebecca did and demand, seek, answers.

The Torah describes in a beautiful and detailed way the relationship between Jethro and Moses, which indicates the relationship between human beings in general and the relationship between mother-in-law and mother-in-law in particular. If we all know, the older generation and the younger generation, to listen and respect, then the relationship and family ties will be full of joy and closeness.

Stubbornness is one of the worst traits in a relationship, and in its power to lead to lack of communication and lack of sharing; Why have a dialogue if the other side is always right? These things can challenge any relationship. While there is room for the trait of stubbornness, in a relationship it is recommended that we do not use it.