Articles #עבודה זוגית

Sometimes in a relationship the natural emotion pulls the person in a different direction - sometimes each one still takes care of themselves and does not think enough about the other. It is important to know how to double the words and deeds pertaining to the relationship and give them the dignified stage and proper emphasis.

Think with yourself, what kind of people are you, what is your default in relation to the various things in life. Are you 'no people?', or are you more inclined to 'yes people?', are there areas towards which you have one inclination, and other areas towards which you have a different inclination? Or is the 'why yes' or 'why not' approach correct for most areas of life?

The sharp-eyed will be able to see and feel the final moments approaching, the vigilance, the concentration and the final chord coming. The chord that will continue to resonate throughout the hall and in the spaces of the heart even when the melody stops playing. And what about us? Have we spent enough time thinking about our year-end chord? Are we preparing for it? Many of us are already busy these days with the question of how to start the new year, thinking about the new opportunities that lie ahead, and trying to choose the path we would like to follow in the coming year. But what about the end of the year?

Many times in a relationship it happens that we disagree about our partner, or we behave differently. Sometimes the difference causes friction, disagreements and even unpleasant fights, and sometimes we criticize our partner for his thoughts or his behavior. The criticism usually stems from my 'world map', which is different from my partner's.