Articles #מריבה

It is also important to know how to fight. No, we were not confused. Our recommendation for the couple is to occasionally even fight a little. Why fight? Because keeping it in your stomach, holding back, keeping quiet, giving up again and again at the cost of the anger filling up, the stomach exploding in a moment, is usually a recipe for an explosion. Better to talk, share, open up. Yes, also to complain and grumble. And if necessary then also argue and fight. But this is the way to share with your partner what is on your heart, and this is the way to find a more correct path together. A solution that is better for both of you. And why else fight? Because fighting is an important skill. that it is really important to learn it and practice it. that it is important to experiment with it and do it right. In a way that doesn't hurt, doesn't diminish, and doesn't humiliate or punish. And why else fight? Because reconciliation after a quarrel is a great gift. A moment of grace where we can once again breathe together, dream together, rejoice together. And reconciliation after a fight can bring the relationship to new and better places. So the way of sharing, opening up, fighting and then completing and building a higher floor, this is the way to love. #sorry

​So Shira and Yoni (the names are not real) are like that. They met at a demonstration 13 years ago. They both stood and shouted waving their hands enthusiastically, screaming from the bottom of their hearts, when suddenly their mutual shout remained suspended in the air for a moment, their eyes met and half an hour later they were already sitting together for coffee. There they discovered that it's crazy how they didn't meet before. In so many places their lives overlapped. They were in the same tribe in Bnei Akiva, quite close branches in the same district, so how come they didn't meet in any camp? Both graduated together 3 years ago at Ariel University. And both of them have been participating in Tuesday's demonstrations for a long time.