And suddenly the one that I didn't want him just because of age, or the one that I didn't go out with again just because she was too shy... seems like a serious mistake to me (and you can figure out what other significant "criteria" you rejected, which suddenly seem so marginal to you in perspective!) . And suddenly with a little deeper thought, and after another year that has passed, I understand or you understand, that I pushed on because of nonsense. And for a moment I missed the really important things.
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